tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937616452997749214.post7719916689233419176..comments2012-12-12T01:11:11.963-05:00Comments on A Solitary Druid of Avalon: When the Darkness Tries to Consume YouMorgaine Pendragonhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18121338493723791466noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937616452997749214.post-56258378289586963542010-06-23T10:31:50.790-04:002010-06-23T10:31:50.790-04:00Where do you live? I am far away, but perhaps in ...Where do you live? I am far away, but perhaps in some way, even if it is just to listen, I can help. I know what you are feeling right now; I've felt the same way myself. I'm thinking it is time to tell my story on my woman's blog and how I became a survivor. Please contact me. I am here for you.mxtodis123https://www.blogger.com/profile/13583200601379394225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937616452997749214.post-63767818959770065022010-06-23T07:29:31.255-04:002010-06-23T07:29:31.255-04:00I feel so terrible hearing your pain and not being...I feel so terrible hearing your pain and not being able to help.<br /><br />I'm not sure what the full story is here as I've not been reading your other blogs so I'm probably not qualified to comment. However, one of the biggest questions is how do you feel about this man? <br />3 years is a long time and I'd be tempted to say if things were going to mend you would have evidence of that by now. 3 years is a long time to waste on misery.<br />I understand you not wanting to lose what you've gained, but things are just things. Your happiness and mental health are much more important than mere things. Starting again doesn't have to be bad - when you've made a concious decision and you keep the right frame of mind then starting again can be a wonderful, liberating experience.Honestly! ;)<br />I know that leaving an unhappy relationship can be so difficult regardless of how unhappy it makes you. It takes some guts to do.<br />Like I said, how do you feel about this man? Do you really love him? Is together still better? Maybe you should go live near to your good thing? Is this a friend/son/brother?? (sorry being horribly nosey)Find someone who will help support you and help you get everything you need together and have a break from the situation so you can breathe again? Staying so unhappy and afraid for financial reasons makes no sense, things will work out even if you can't see it right now. Take good care of yourself,<br />Nellie xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8937616452997749214.post-72107783137623125792010-06-23T00:33:21.250-04:002010-06-23T00:33:21.250-04:00if you focus on the darkness how will you ever fin...if you focus on the darkness how will you ever find the light? As a holistic healer you alone should now the power of positive thought. If this is the same man that you have in your personal description area as your soulmate and love of your life he cannot be wholly bad.<br /><br />Don't make the hole darker and ditch the shovel - cause all you're doing currently is digging a deeper hole.<br /><br />Find the ladder - it IS in there.<br /><br />Blessed BeNicolehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17648307410383451558noreply@blogger.com